40 Flirty Texts for Her


So you want to get flirtatious whilst messaging someone?! Here’s how.

First of all, bear in mind most women are looking for a combination of deep talk that makes them feel closer to you as they get to know you; a sense of real curiosity coming from you about who they are; signs that you are not just fun, flirtatious and sexy, but also caring. This means flirtatious texts should include all the above, not just the obviously flirty stuff. With that in mind, let’s have a look at some flirty texts, shall we?

In the Morning

1. Good morning beautiful, I hope you’ll have a stunning day!

You’re complimenting her by calling her beautiful and you show you care by wishing her a stunning day.

2. Good morning…I wish I could see you as you awaken. I bet you’re beautiful.

Sort of sexy, sort of cute.

3. Good morning sunshine, can’t wait to see you later!

Telling her you’re looking forward to seeing her is a sign you’re thinking of her and will guaranteed put a smile on her face!

4. Good morning gorgeous!

Simple, but a way to show you are thinking of her in the morning. Besides, who doesn’t like being called gorgeous?

5. Good morning cutie…I just dreamt of you…

Of course how flirtatious that gets depends on what you dreamt…

6. Check out the sunshine today! Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day, thou art more lovely and more…something! Let’s meet to play in the sun today, shall we? 😉

Shakespeare always works. So long as you mix it up with something fun.

At Night

7. Good night beautiful one.

Aww, so sweet. There’s just something about “beautiful one” that makes it sound pure and genuine. Maybe more romantic than flirtatious, but then romance is flirtatious…

8. Sweet dreams (please include me in them).

Now this could be cute, could be sexy. Depends on how they interpret it, as well as if the conversation continues after this text.

9. I agree with Dylan: I long to reach for you in the night…lay lady lay… Sweet dreams.

When in doubt, quote someone else…


10. I’m off to bed to dream of you… Sweet dreams beautiful one.

You can exchange “beautiful one” to whatever suits your mood, be it sexy, cutie, hot stuff, gorgeous, etc.

11. I wish I could kiss you good night right now.

Whoop, whoop!

12. I just wish I could give you a big, warm good night hug right now. Sweet dreams beautiful.

Aww, cute and flirtatious at the same time. Because by the end of the day, no matter how cute hugs are, they are also sexy with the right person.

13. I’m so tired, I just snuggled up in bed. Thinking of you. Nighty night.

Now it depends on what you’re thinking, of course, but thinking about someone in bed, when you’re talking about cuddles and snuggles is flirtatious by nature.

14. Sending you a goodnight hug and kiss. Sweet dreams.

Who doesn’t like ‘em good night hugs and kisses?

For Any Time of Day

15. Just thinking about you…

Knowing someone’s thinking about you is flirty. Be prepared to share what you’re thinking though…

16. What are you going to wear tonight? 😉

If you’ve planned a date it will show you’re thinking how great someone looks in certain clothes if you ask them about their intended outfit.

17. I just heard this song that reminded me about you. Something about having met this crazy cool chic 😉

You can exchange “crazy cool chic” to whatever is appropriate – be it beautiful soul, or sexy woman.

18. I can’t wait to see you tonight!

Telling someone you’re looking forward to seeing them shows you’re thinking about them and are excited about the prospect of seeing them, which is flirty as is.

19. I think you’re beautiful…and I can’t stop thinking about it…

Ah, all women love hearing they’re beautiful inside and out.

20. What kind of dates do you really like?

Asking her about what she likes, then planning it with a bit of your own flavor thrown into the mix is the perfect way of showing you care and have imagination.

21. What’s one dream you have that you haven’t revealed to someone else?…

Oh, we’re going deep, a bit of intimacy!

22. What’s one thing men do that you find terribly attractive?

Take note.

23. What’s the most romantic place to kiss someone?

Get her imagination stirred and sooner than you know it she’ll be imaging kissing you there. Note though that it probably means at some point you have to take her there…

24. Have you ever had a dream of me at night?

Oh, oh. She may or may not reveal what that dream was about…

25. What do you think are three ingredients that would make a relationship last?

Getting someone to think along those lines can help and it shows you’re thinking along those lines.

26. What do you think are three ingredients that would make a relationship stay exciting?

A bit more flirtatious perhaps? Exciting is, after all, flirty. Because what’s flirting if not exciting desire come alive?

27. How do you best think you go about exploring a soul and soul connection?

This is deep. If she’s deep it might just work though…

28. I was just thinking of dancing with you…do you like to dance?

Obviously not a good one if you have two left feet…

29. I was just thinking about how stunning you looked last night…

Hot damn!

30. I just remembered how great you look on a dance floor…

If she can dance this is both flirty and a compliment! If she can’t dance, obviously this is not the right message…

31. You know, I like you just as you are.

This comes with a slight OTT warning in romance department. And you better really like her if you send her this. Love her like her.

32. I just thought of you and smiled.



33. You know one thing I really like about you is…

Insert flirtatious compliment.

34. Tell me one thing you really like about me.

This can come across as cocky if sent at the wrong time, but if you’re talking about each other’s personalities this can take the conversation to…the next level!

35. Love the way you make me smile randomly at random times.

So sweet.

36. If you could do anything with me right now, what would it be?

This can go in any direction; using imagination to come up with things you’d love to do together.

37. If we had 24 hours together only, what do you think we’d do?

Then go do it! (Bearing in mind of course, there is a tomorrow…)

38. You know what? You’re one of the coolest people I’ve ever met.

“Coolest” can be exchanged for sweetest, most beautiful, most stunning, most interesting…the list goes on. Compliments are often semi-flirtatious in nature.

39. Thanks for last night. You were gorgeous.

All women wanna hear you had a good time with them. And that they’re gorgeous.

40. What’s the most attractive clothes a man can wear?

Apart from getting the two of you to talk about attraction you’ll also find out what kind of clothes make her look twice when you wear them. Note though that always wearing what she wants is a turn off because it shows you have no mind of your own, but incorporating it works wonders.