40 Intimate Questions to Ask a Guy

It is very rare for your guy to answer your questions as men are not always forthcoming when it comes to giving answers on your questions particularly about themselves.  This is despite the fact that there are questions that will linger in your mind about your man. However, there are moments when the right opportunity will come your way and it is always good to be ready for such a moment. We have created a list of 40 intimate questions that you can ask your guy when you find him in a mood to tell you the truth.

  1. You can expect an answer like…I saw the most beautiful lady or my heart skipped a beat.
  2. What are your expectations concerning this relationship? This is a nice question that will give you an idea of where the relationship is headed. You can follow the question with the exact timelines of where the relationship will be in say like the next two years.
  3. What do you like most about me? This question will give you an idea of areas that make your man happy. You can follow it up with another question on areas where he would like you to improve.love (1)
  4. How much do you value marriage, family and children? Is there a set timeline for these things? This question will give you an idea of where your relationship with him is headed and whether you share the same values on marriage and family.
  5. Are there ways in which I have hurt you without knowing? With this question, it will help you find out the moments of truth concerning the relationship.
  6. What should I do to make your love me more? This is a question that will give you an idea of the things that you can do to improve your relationship with him
  7. Do you pursue a relationship based on physical attraction? When you get an answer to this question, you will have a preview of the things that he values more.
  8. Is there a scent that you love in a lady? This is a nice question to help you find out whether he loves cologne or not.
  9. What is it that you find special in me? Again this is a question that will give you an idea of the things that he values much in you. love (2)
  10. Is there something that you would like me to do for you differently? A good question that will give you an idea on areas that you can improve to make your relationship with him better.
  11. Is there was something that you would change in me, what is it? This is a good question that will let you know whether there is a negative side that he doesn’t love about you.
  12. Do you look at other women? For this question, it can be difficult for him to answer in the affirmative. However, it can give you an idea on whether he has a philandering eye.
  13. In case you had the opportunity to ask me for 3 wishes, what would these be? This question will give you an idea of the things that he would love you to do for him.
  14. When talking with your friend, how do you describe me to them? The way that your man talks to other people about you is a true reflection of his position on you. Getting an answer to this question will give you an idea of his level of commitment and whether he truly loves you.
  15. Have you ever cheated on your partner? In case you haven’t, have you ever considered doing this but later decided not to do so? Well this is another question that he will find difficult to tell the truth. However, if he answers in the affirmative, you can feel insecure but you can look at it from the bright side and understand that you have a man who is brutally honest.
  16. How many partners have you slept with? A good question that can help you find out the level of his commitment to a relationship?
  17. Before you found me, have you ever loved another person with the whole of your heart? This question will give you an idea of how he feels about his past relation as well as your current affair.
  18. In case you found out that I cannot bear children, would you still stay with me? This is a question that will give you an idea on whether he can stand with you during the hard times.
  19. I would like us to have the best love affair in the world. What can I do to make this relationship better? A good question that will help you to figure out how you can add that extra spark in the relationship.
  20. Do you have any occupational goals and what are their effects on our relationship? You definitely want a man who has goals. However, you don’t want these to be the cause of a breakup. This is why you need to find out more about the effects of his goals on the relationship.
  21. Do you believe in love at first site? A good question that can awaken his romantic side. He may answer that when he first saw you, he surely fell in love with you. If he answers on the contrary, it means that he is more interested in the inside of you.
  22. Do you think that our love with last or are there any doubts about that? With this query, it is possible to have an idea of where the love relationship is headed. This question will help you find out whether he is committed to the relationship.
  23. What are your fantasies that you would love to be fulfilled? A great question that will help you revitalize your sex life. However, you will also need to consider whether you would be comfortable living with some of these fantasies.love (3)
  24. Do you think that this love will last forever? A good question that is a good indicator of where the relationship is headed. You can follow up on this question by asking for the specific timeline on when he wants to get married.
  25. What is it that annoys you most? A good question that will let you know the things that causes him to be unhappy. This can help to improve your relationship with him as you can avoid these things.
  26. Do you dwell on the past occurrences? This question will give you an idea on whether you should reveal your past to him. If he is the kind that dwells on the past occurrences, you may be better off withholding that dark past from him.
  27. Is there a part of your past that you regret about? This is another good question that will give you a preview of his past life. With this question, you can find out whether he has any dark past. Consider whether you are ready to live with this dark past.
  28. Are you comfortable sharing with me everything? This question will help you find out whether he minds sharing his secrets with you. It is an indication of the level of trust that he has in you and whether he can count on you to help him handle his challenges.
  29. Is there someone from your past whom you still have feelings about? A good question that will let you know whether there is a relationship from his past that still holds him back.
  30. Would you get hurt in case I had feelings for someone from my past? In case you would like to find out whether he is the jealousy type, this is just but the right question to ask him. However, it is advisable to avoid telling him if you have feelings for your ex- if you at all care for the relationship. romantic-black-couple3
  31. When was the first time that you had your first kiss? A good question that will remind him of his first experience. You can follow this up with a question on how he felt and whether it met his expectations.
  32. How did you lose your virginity? This is a question that will give you an idea of his love life and when he became sexually active. While it is not advisable to dwell so much on the past, this can give you an idea of the kind of person that you are dating.
  33. What is your definition of a great sexual relationship? If you want to find out whether he is satisfied sexually, you do not have to ask him this question directly. Instead, you should find out his expectations of a great sexual relationship so that you can get an idea on whether you are meeting this.
  34. In case of an ideal relationship, how often would you like to have sex? This question will help him to open up about his sexual life. It will also give you an idea of whether you are compatible sexually.
  35. If you had the opportunity to do so, what is it that you would change about me? When you ask him this question, all you are saying is that you are looking for ways to improve your love life and you want to do this by making yourself better.
  36. If you had the chance to do so, what would you change about yourself? This is a great question that will let you know whether there are areas in his life that he is not happy about and would like to change.
  37. When I talk to my friends about you, what would you like me to tell them? A good question that will let you know what are his expectations when you discuss about him with your friends
  38. Which of your past relationships were you happiest and why? This question will help you find out what really pleased him about his past relationship and what you can do to have a better relationship with him.
  39. How do you handle conflict? This question will give you a clear picture of his ability to withstand and handle challenges. This can give you an idea whether he will be able to overcome the turbulent times during the relationship.romantic-black-couple3
  40. What is the greatest obstacle that you ever faced and how did you overcome it? This question will offer you an idea of some of his difficult times and whether he has the ability to handle challenges.

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