You have tried to talk to girls in your hood but noted that none seems interested in you. To make the matter worse, that new neighbor who moved into your neighborhood seems to be a magnet for girls and they even fight for him. You are left wondering whether there is something that you are doing wrong or even if you are cursed. It can be a bit challenging to understand why girls don’t like you. However, it is not because it is complicated but because you are likely to be hurt by the truth. If you would like to be the magnet for women, you may need to change yourself into a better person. Here are some key reasons why girls don’t like you.
- The way you look and present yourself
It could be that your body type isn’t the ideal one; it could also be your face or even height that is not pleasing the girls. Your looks can have an effect on whether you can get a girl or not. The good news is that there are some things that you can do to make yourself more attractive to the girls. Ensure that you get into the gym and acquire your dream shape. Always groom yourself to ensure that you look your best especially when you are going to a place where you can interact with girls.
However, it is also important to note that even when a girl is interested in your looks, the way you present yourself will matter more than your physical look. Are you well groomed? Do you care the way you present yourself to the world? If you are the kind who doesn’t even care to shave their beards, you can be assured that you will find it difficult to get a girlfriend. The way you look not only attract girls but also other people in life. Therefore, get those decent jeans, some nice shoes and stay clean. This will improve your odds of attracting the beautiful girls.
- A bad lifestyle
It could be that you love playing a lot of video game or you are the kind who drinks until you pass out even during the weekdays. Girls are searching for a man who will provide them with an exciting lifestyle. Therefore, if you are finding that girls are not interested in you, you may need to change your lifestyle or you may end up living a lonely life for the rest of your life.
Consider whether your life is interesting and whether you try to make the best out of every situation. Do you search for some new experiences that can enable you to grow individually? When you show her that your life is great, she will definitely want to be part of it. Consider if she saw how average your life is she would still want to be part of it.
- You are that nice guy
When you hear girls say that they love those nice girls, you do not have to believe them because at least for the majority of them, it is not true. The fact of the matter is that most girls find the Mr. Nice guy to be quite boring. They prefer the bad guy so that they can change them. So, what is the reason for this weird fact? The main reason is that girls like handling challenges and it is in their natural nature to be nurturing. However, it is advisable not to be at the complete end at the same time. Having a don’t-care attitude will only make you to look immature and a person who cannot be trusted with a family. A good thing to do is to find the right balance.
- A bad attitude
A negative attitude is a major reason why girls do not like to be around you. This is because your bad attitude is likely to put them in a foul mood. You would also not like to hang around a person who is not only complaining but is out to bring down the people around them. You will also believe that girls will love to be around someone who brings up their spirit. Therefore, to attract girls, you will need to change your negativity into some positivity. In general it is also very hard for negative people to make friends or even find people that they can actually be around.
- Being nervous and shy
If you are the kind who are nervous and shy around girls, then it is obvious that you don’t have a lot of experience around girls. If you approach girls in the wrong manner, then it will be difficult for you to understand them. Girls prefer men who are confident and if they don’t like you, it could be that they already notice that you are the insecure type. It is important to have a certain level of self esteem and understand that you are attractive. A good way to start is by engaging in things that makes you feel good. You can even start a hobby that you enjoy. However, this doesn’t mean that you need to be cocky. The importance thing is to ensure that you are sure of yourself and this will also make girls to be attracted to you.
- Showing that you are desperate
Showing that you are desperate can also be a big turnoff. In case you are finding that girls don’t like you, it could be that they don’t understand your intent. Of course many people don’t like to be alone but if you really want to have a girlfriend so bad, you will date anyone who comes your way. However, girls are searching for men who have special interest in them and make them feel special. They dislike men who will date anyone who is in a skirt.
- Your goal
Ask yourself one question: what is your goal when interacting with a woman? If all you need is to be around her, this will put you in a lot of trouble. This is due to the fact that you will come out as needy or fake? Whatever the reason, the woman will not be interested in you. If the woman feels that you are only interested in sex, then she will not be interested in you. Many women will not like the idea of being used as sex objects before being discarded.
- Too much confidence
Confidence is important. However, too much of it, which can be termed as arrogance is also a turn-off. Women love to be appreciated and noticed. Therefore, if all you do is to focus on your greatness rather than noticing how great she is, you can be assured that she will not stay with you for a long period of time. While too much confidence will spoil things for you after a period of time, the lack of confidence will not even give you the opportunity to spoil things up. In other words, if you have no confidence, you can be assured that you are heading nowhere.
When you follow these tips, you will find out how easy it can be to find the girl of your dream.