If you would like to take your relationship with a girl to the next level, it is important to make your intentions known. This is important as she will now be aware that she is committed to someone and therefore reject any advances from other men. However, many men are afraid of asking a girl to be their girlfriend because of the fear of rejection. A lot of questions will go through the thoughts of a man when preparing to ask a girl to be his girlfriend. What if she rejects me? Will she hate me for this? What if she shares this with her girlfriends and I become the laughing stock?
However, the most important thing to realize is that unless you ask her to be your sweetheart, she will continue treating you as a friend. In fact another guy may come along, make his move and snatch her away from you. So the best decision that you can make in regard to the relationship is to ask her to be your girlfriend. It is important to note that the way you do it will play a big role in determining whether she accepts your request or not. The good news is that there are some cute ways in which you can increase your chances of her saying “yes” to your request. Here are a few of them.
- Do not rush it
Already you may be seeing her for some time. However, if you haven’t been together for several dates or you haven’t spent some weeks or months seeing one another, you should avoid rushing in making the proposal. Love is a serious matter. While many of us may not take it seriously, it will take time for it to build in our hearts. It is important to take to see where your relationship with her is headed and if toy are sure that you are in love with her, you should be ready to speak up your mind.
- Avoid overdoing it
Remember that when asking a girl to be your girlfriend, you are not giving her a ring. While it is a good thing to express your love for her, this is not a commitment which is as serious as getting into a marriage. So there is no point in going down on your knees or coming up with a great proposal idea just to let her know that you love her. This kind of overindulgent may only end up scaring her away. However, if she is the kind who loves the extravagant setting or dramatic ideas, you can choose to go down on your knee.
- Make sure it remains memorable
There is no need of splurging to ensure that it remains special and memorable. If you have made the decision to show your love to the girl, you will need to ensure that is looks romantic and perfect in some little ways. This is a good way to express your love for her.
- Go out on a romantic dinner
One of the perfect ways of asking the girl to be yours is during a romantic dinner. You can do so in a cozy setting or in a romantic diner by the beach or under the stars.
- Give her a nice and small gift
In most cases, it is the small and inexpensive gifts that are loved and cherished. Already you aren’t in a relationship with the girl and therefore it is advisable to avoid buying the expensive gifts. This is because she may end up feeling bad and avoid accepting the extravagant. A good idea would be to choose the special and nice gifts that will create some memory and will last long such as a porcelain figurine, a little glass or even a haromica. This is something that will connect the two of you in a way,
- Greeting card
If you want to be your and you don’t want it to look awkward, you can select a romantic greeting that will help to explain your feelings. You can add a few lines on the blank part and give the card to her as the two of you sit during dinner.
- Love letter
A love letter is the best way of expressing every emotion that you feel for the girl. It will feel good to let the girl know what she means to you and this is something that will help her understand what she means to you and the smile that you bring in her face.
- Speak it out
No matter the option that you choose to communicate your feelings, you will still need to speak it out. The written words will help to warm her up but you will still need to express what you feel in your heart. You can do this by letting her know special she is to you. Ensure that you are sweet, romantic or anything else that will help to express how affectionate you are to her.
- Avoid asking things out
Ensure that you let her how what you feel and then you can wait for her to reciprocate. You can coax her and nudge her little bit to say what she is thinks. If she happens to hesitate in speaking out, do not push her too much. At times, all she needs is a bit of time that will help her to express herself in a clear way. You will have said what you would like to and she will give her response when she is ready.
- Use the three magic words
Now that you have already expressed your heart and she understands the feeling. If you want her to be your girlfriend, there are moments when the best way of doing that is by saying how you feel. Avoid leaving her hanging and wondering what is it that is in your mind. When you tell her that you love her, you should let her understand.
- Write the words in the snow
You can write the proposal in the snow using food coloring or hot water. All that you will require is food coloring, a water gun and an area that is covered with snow.
- Use fortune cookies
A good idea would be to take her to a restaurant that you have been before. Write the message on a cute scroll and give it to the restaurant manager or even waiter. Ask them to put the scroll in the fortune cookie and bring it to the table after the meal. This is a cute and romantic trick that will help you get the yes answer.
- Use your pet
Many girls are attracted to pets. Therefore, you can use this to your advantage. All you need to do is write down your emotions and feelings using words that are beautifully drafted on the piece of paper. You can tie this to the pet and leave the beautiful message on her door. She will definitely adore the proposal and this will make her believe that she is your type.
- Use the big screen
You can speak to the manger of a movie theater and ask him to show the flashes on a big screne during intermission. When they flash the message, hand her a bouquet of flower and ask her to be your girlfriend.
- Use a balloon
It could be that you don’t like doing things with magnificence and pomp. However, this doesn’t mean that you don’t want to ask in an elegant way. A good idea wuld be to draft the message in a big giant balloon and attach the balloon on a door knob, locket or just on her car.
- Use some little treats
You can give her a gift that is anything from the small ones to the expensive ones. The most important thing is to remember what she want and keep the little things for a period of a few days. You can then ask her whether she would like to be your boyfriend using a beautiful rose.
- Join her in her hobby
You can start by determining her hobbies and interests. This could be anything from shopping, eating or mountain climbing. You can plan something that will involve one or all her hobbies. The key thing is to show her that you are a better companion for her in everything. After a fun-filled day, you can drop her home and convey the message. However, this trick can only work if she is your friend as it is not possible to execute it with people who are complete strangers.
- Use a proposal song
If you would like her heart to melt away, why don’t you use a proposal song. The idea is to chosoe a romantic song which you can play for her. And the best place for doing this in her home. Therefore, if you can write a song or plan an instrument, it will be even better. When you get to her home, remove your guitar, play a love song and ask her to be yours.
- Use a dedicated website
You can create a website and fill the home with questions that you need to ask. Use her pictures, video messages and poems. The most important thing is to fill it with anything that is suitable for this role.
- Write your proposal on a T-shirt
You will find some custom tees in many websites. You can have a t-shirt customized with her name and a question asking her if she will be your girlfriend. Ensure that you have worn a jacket before taking her to the usually place or even a nearby park. You can then reveal the special t-shirt to her. You can also get help from toddlers. Ensure that the kids wear the tees with your proposal. You can then arrange them in an area where the two of you will be passing.
- Baseball proposal
You can cut a baseball at the center and remove its inner core. You can then write the message in form of a scroll and hand it to her during the right time. Wait to see for her reaction.
- Use a lunch box
This is a simple but cute way of asking. If the two of you work in one place, you can try to divert her attention. For instance, you can ask a friend to move her from her desk. After she has left, you can get out the lunch box and use the message to flavor it. You can then fix back as you wait for her to go for lunch.
- Seek help from friends
You can go with the girls on a beach vacation. You can have an arrangements where the friends will carry the message and reveal it to that special person during the planned moments. When they ask the question, stand and reveal the question.
- Use chocolate
Many girls love their chocolate and asking the girl using one is not likely to fail. You can buy the chocolate from your local store or you can choose to make it at home.
- Light up a room
Evening are definitely a perfect time for many things. It could be the cup of coffee of the flying lantern. When done in the evening, this will have a romantic touch. If she lives near you, you can use some colorful lights to decorate an area such as the wall or even the roof. Ensure that you include her name together with the message. Ensure that the roof is lit up and she sees it. Not only will she love it but the answer that you will get is a definite yes.
Now you already have alist of some creative ways that you can use to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. It is important for you to choose one that feels touchy. The key thing is to ensure that you use a method that is both memorable and interesting. Remember that when you treat her like a queen, she will really appreciate you.