How to Write a Love Letter for Her


There are certain things pertaining to love that just never go out of style. Love letters is definitely one of those things. Just because we can call, text, or even email nowadays doesn’t mean you should put your pens away and forget all about writing love letters for that special girl in your life.

Honestly, girls LOVE getting love letters. You can even text out a love letter, but the best way to give the woman you love a special letter is to actually hand write it yourself so she knows just how much effort you’ve put into it.

Love letters can add a new spark to your relationship, show your appreciation for your woman, and help bring the two of you closer together. If you want to really show her how much you love her, then writing a love letter is the way to go.

How to Write a Love Letter

Now, we’re not all the greatest writers in the world and it can be hard to figure out just how to write a love letter that’ll mean a lot to her. But that’s why we’re here to help you! Here is how to write a love letter and make it meaningful.


  1. Be honest.

This is the most important thing to remember. No matter which part of the love letter you’re writing, always be honest. Don’t tell her you love something about her if it’s one of those things that you could do without (we all have certain things we’re not crazy about in our partners). And don’t make promises you don’t intend to keep. This is just harmful and damaging to the relationship – the complete opposite of what a love letter should be.

  1. Talk about the things you love about her.

This should not only be really easy for you, but it’ll mean SO much to her. Most people don’t know exactly what their partner loves about them. They know in general that you do like them for their personality, etc., but what are the little quirks that make you smile when you watch her? How do you describe her to the people in your life? Talk about all of those things that you love about her and it’s automatically a meaningful love letter.

  1. Bring up romantic memories.

There’s obviously been some romance in your relationship from time to time. Talk about a really romantic memory you have of the two of you. Anything from you very first date to something more recent that made you feel romantic and in love. If you bring up these memories and point out your favorite parts about them, she’ll understand just how much you really enjoyed those moments and this is an extremely romantic gesture.

  1. Talk about how your life has changed since meeting her.

Because your life has DEFINITELY changed since meeting her. Maybe she makes you a neater person. Maybe she makes you more ambitious. Or maybe she just makes you want to be a better person that is deserving of her. Tell her all of those things. Tell her how grateful you are that she’s changed your life in so many great ways. Never bring up anything negative in this part, either because that could be harmful. Stick to the ways she’s made a positive impact on your life – because there are far more of those than if she’s made anything negative.

  1. Commit to her.

Voice your commitment to her. I’m sure she already knows that you’re in the relationship for the long haul and you don’t want to be with anyone but her, but sometimes it’s just SO nice to hear those things. So make sure you write down just how much you’re in it for the long haul. Talk about how you want to grow old with her and be there for everything. She’ll be touched to hear these things and it’ll even give her a self-esteem boost knowing you want to do it all with her.


Examples of Love Letters

Now, if you’re someone that has all of those feelings but just doesn’t know what to do with all the words, I have a few examples for you to go off of. Don’t copy these word for word, because that’s not genuine. However, you can use these as a guide for your own thoughts and feelings.

Make sure to write your love letter according to what you’re trying to say. If you’re apologizing, choose one that depicts just how sorry you are. If it’s a long distance relationship and you miss her, choose one that tells her just how much you wish you could see her.

  1. “With this letter, I send my love for you. To my amazing wife, I wish you would come back to me. I will do whatever it takes for you to realize that you are everything to me. You are the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me! My love for you is deeper than any ocean, more vast than any sky, and much brighter than any sun that has ever shone. You lift my spirits in way that none other can every time we speak. My soul is yours for the taking. You are my sunrise in the morning and the shining moon when the sun has fallen.”
  1. “Sometimes I just think back to the first time I laid eyes on you. I knew right then that I had found someone incredible. Ever since that very moment all I have ever wanted was to be with you. No matter how dark my day is, seeing you always brightens it and makes me realize that with you, I am doing right. Your heart is so pure and so forgiving that it will always be the center of my attention, no matter what else is going on in my life. There is nothing I won’t do to see you happy in this life. The day I finally have you in my arms will be the happiest day of my life. I look forward to this day and many more just like it for you will forever be in my heart.”
  1. “My dearest love, we simply cannot lose hope for our love. I fear if we lose hope, our own love will be lost along with it. If your parents forbid you to see me, I can accept this and we can plan to meet in secret for a life with you in solitude is better than a life of freedom without you. I will do whatever it takes to spend my life with you. We can meet at midnight near the large oak tree outside your front gate and together, we can run away together. We will never have to deal with anyone putting down our love or dismissing it as unimportant. Your love is more important to me than anything else in this world. I will not sacrifice my love for you for anything. I would never choose to live without you and by sending this letter, I can only hope that you feel the same for a life without you is no life at all.”
  1. “Baby, it’s been far too long since I got to last see your beautiful smile. I can’t help but miss the way you hold me, the way you hug me. Whenever I get sad and think of you, I just remember the way you smelled, the way your hair blew in the wind, the way it felt to hold you in my arms. When I looked at you, it was like fireworks erupting in my heart. I’m missing you so dearly and I just can’t accept that this is the end. I can’t accept a life without you.”


  1. “There aren’t enough words in the English language to express how sorry I feel right now. Trust me when I tell you that I never meant for anything I did to hurt you and I can only say that your pain is my pain. You have been the only real thing in my life and you know me more than anyone else could ever hope to. I know that with you in my life, I will cherish you every single day in any way I can. So when I say that I know I have made a bigger mistake than I ever have before, I mean it more than you can ever know. You mean the world to me. Please don’t take my world away.”


  1. “Not a moment goes by when I don’t think about you and the beauty you bring to my life. I think about you every second of every day and I wish I could think about you more. Every time your face pops into my mind I fall more and more in love with you. It doesn’t matter if you’re standing right next to me or a million miles away, my love for you stays strong. There may be some days when I don’t confess my love for you as much as I should and I just want you to know that even in those times, my heart beats only for you. My heart craves your touch, your scent, your smile, your laugh. I ache to be with you even when we are together. You are everything in my life and without you, my life is not worth living. You are forever in my heart and I wish I never have to spend a day without you by my side. You are my love, and I shall love you forever and for always.”

There are a lot of different ways you can write a love letter to your girl and make her feel like the most special woman in the world. The key is to write things that are meaningful to you and she’ll see just how much she truly means to you. Be honest and let your feelings out on the paper and it’ll be a successful love letter for her.


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