Relationship experts have given several tips on how to keep the spark in relationships alive. One of the techniques is asking questions. Questions that will reveal their opinion on that may affect the future of the relationship such as marriage, kids, divorce and what they think about their partners among other issues.
Some of the serious may be asked for fun while others are serious. For instance, asking them their celebrity crush is a fun and silly question. However, asking them if you will be a part of their future should be considered a serious question.
It is important to note that different questions will elicit different reactions. While asking, be prepared for anything. If you are a sensitive person, do not ask controversial and sensitive questions. Here are a list of romantic questions that a boyfriend can be asked.
- Do you remember how we met?
If your boyfriend has an answer to this question, he is madly in love with you. This is an important day in your lives that must not be overlooked. Are you having a romance reminiscing session? Time to pop this question is now.
- Do you remember our first kiss?
This question carries a lot of weight. The first kiss marks the milestone in any relationship. No one would be forgiven for forgetting their first kiss moments. It does not matter if the kissing was shoddy or great. Hearing the man of your dreams relieve the kiss first shared will melt your heart and bring tears to your eyes.
- What about me were you first attracted to?
Everyone has outstanding features that bring out the best in them. It may be that long black and silky hair. Is it those cute green eyes? Maybe he liked your boobs. Find out what drove that man go gaga on you.
- What song reminds you of us/me?
The kind of songs your man likes will tell a lot about his current situation and what is going on in his mind. It may be a song that both of you like singing or dancing to. It may be your favorite song. Perhaps it is a song that made him love you.
- Would you be comfortable telling me anything?
Good relationships thrive because of trust and a strong bond between the lovers. If he loves you and has no commitment issues, he would be willing and ready to share the deepest and darkest secrets he is maybe harboring. The truth, however, is that very few people will expose their secrets and weaknesses to partners
- How can I prove that I love you?
Are you in the mood of invoking some serious emotions? Just ask your guy what can be done in the bid to prove that you love them. Most men would ask for sex. Others will require you to be the faithful and ever-present girlfriend in their life. This is your golden chance to find out what he is craving for.
- If something bad happened to me, what would you reaction be?
Any response to this question that is less than terribly distressful for months on end, it may be an indication that he is not really into you. A heartwarming response is an assurance that he will not replace in case anything happened.
- What do you like most about me?
Do you want to know what your man fancies in you? Why not pop this question? Dear ladies, if he says that he loves everything about you, he is lying. He has to have that one special characteristic that he likes in you.
- Do you think this relationship will last?
This is one of the proven ways to determine if someone is serious about the relationship. Till the end of time and forever kind of responses or anything along those lines should be treated with a lot of caution. As much as guys may not want to admit it, they know what they want from the first day of the relationship.
- How much is your love for me?
Expect two responses when asking this question: A cold shoulder or compliments, kisses, and hugs.
- What do you think of marriage?
What do you hope to achieve from that relationship? It is every woman’s dream to marry sometime in future. If your guy is not on board with the idea of marriage, there may be a problem. Any man, who hopes to spend a lifetime with you, should be treated with a lot of seriousness.
- Do you think we will ever get married?
Are there rings and honeymoons in future? Ask and you will be answered. If he says that he is marriage is not a priority in his life, it may be time to end the relationship.
- What memory of ours will you never forget?
Over the course of your relationship, you have created some memories. Find out the fondest memories your man holds. Take a few minutes to listen to him as he reminisces about that favorite moment.
- What is your ideal honeymoon situation?
Only ask this question if he harbors the idea of marrying you. That will give you an insight into his imagination. Who knows, that dream may be a reality in the near future.
- What is the craziest thing you would for me?
Wondering what crazy moves your man would make for you? Find out by asking this question. However, expect crazy and out of this world ideas. Beating the bouncer who harasses you may be one of the answers.
- Would you be my knight in shining armor if I were a damsel in distress?
Would he protect you from bullies? Will he protect from danger? Yes is the most probable answer, for the sake of love. Any answer short of yes should call for some rethinking.
- Who is the most important person in your life?
He will probably mention his family and you. A few friends may be included in that list.
- What are you looking for in a life partner?
He will make out a list of traits that he admires and hopes his life partner should possess. Chances are he will mention a few traits about you.
- What is your favorite romantic movie/novel?
Ask him what his favorite novel or movie is. You may surprise him with it on a special occasion such his birthday.
- What is your wildest fantasy?
Want to gauge how far his imagination can stretch? Maybe he wants to hike that mountain , skydiving or drive that race car.
- Where in the world would you want to visit?
If he is a travel enthusiast, he will give a list of his dream destinations.
- Would you date me if I was two years older than you?
Age is an important aspect to consider while in a relationship. Some guys have issues dating women older than. To others, age is just but a number.
- What do you consider as the most important aspect of any relationship?
Does he prefer physical or emotional attachment? Different men have different perceptions when it comes to relationships. While others may consider sex important, for others emotional availability is crucial.
- Do you think sex is an important aspect of a healthy relationship?
What is his opinion on sex? Does he consider it an important aspect of the relationship?
- What was your first impression of me?
There is something about you that impressed him. Want to know what he loved about you? Ask the question right about now. Be sure to get compliments that will flatter you and melt your heart.
- What would be your reaction if I suggested we practice abstinence for a certain span of time?
It is important to consider the weight given to sex and sexual related matters before asking this question. Be sure to touch a raw nerve if you guy is a sex maniac.
- When it comes to marriage, is spending time together or getting more income important?
Does he value the time spent together? Do money issues worry him? He may even mention points that he thinks may build or ruin a marriage.
- What scent reminds you of me?
There are some intangible things that our partners love about us. Ask him his favorite scent on you. Who knows, it may be an aphrodisiac.
- Do you want kids? How many?
Ask this question only if he has the potential of marrying you. Probably the best time would be when you are engaged. You may not be engaged, but he has a lot of daddy potential or has mentioned kids as part of his future. If possible, ask him what gender he prefers and probable names.
- How would you describe a perfect life?
He will probably mention some material aspects such as a big house, luxurious house, and cars. He may even mention having a loving wife and kids. Achieving his goals in dreams in life may be a response too.